If I would really need to achieve something like this, I would cheat a bit with the user.
Instead of trying to get click on iframe, make an overlay div and place it above iframe. Attach click event to it, and when div is clicked, hide it.
It will give the user feeling that he clicked on link, but it did not worked correctly. The second time he clicks it will already worked, cause overlay is hidden.
An example code (just for explanation purpose):
<html>
<style>
.test {
position : absolute;
top : 0;
left : 0;
width : 300;
height : 300;
z-index : 999;
filter : alpha(opacity = 0);
opacity : 0;
background-color:black;
}
</style>
<script>
function start(){
var div = document.getElementById("target");
var source = document.createElement("div");
source.className = "test";
document.body.appendChild(source);
var style = source.style;
var div2 = document.createElement("div");
document.body.appendChild(div2);
source.onclick = function(e){
style.display = "none";
div.onmouseout = function(){
div2.innerHTML = "mouseout";
style.display = "";
div.onmouseout = null;
}
div2.innerHTML = "clicked";
}
}
</script>
<body onload="start()">
<div id="target">
<iframe src="http://mail.ru" style="width:300;height:300"></iframe>
</div>
</div>
</html>